5 Things Librarians Wish Every Parent Knew About Early Literacy

Let’s be honest: librarians see a LOT. From the tiny bookworms who can’t get enough to the parents juggling snacks, shoes, and toddler tantrums, we get a front-row seat to the magic—and the challenges—of early literacy.

So, what would your friendly neighborhood librarian really want you to know about helping your little one get ready for school and beyond? Here’s the scoop—with a little quirky, heartfelt librarian love baked right in. 💛📚

1. Literacy is Everywhere — Not Just in Books

You don’t need to sit down with a book every minute to build literacy. Talking about the world around you—whether it’s a stop sign, the sound of a dog barking, or how to make the perfect peanut butter sandwich—counts as reading!

Try This: Narrate your day and ask open-ended questions. Instead of “Ready for bed?” try “What was your favorite part of today?”

2. Messy Play = Literacy Gold

Scrambled letters in sand? Scribbles on paper? Dramatic pretend play? All WINNING activities. Fine motor skills, storytelling, and language grow when kids get messy and creative.

Try This: Set up a mini “writing station” with crayons, stickers, and paper scraps. Let your child “write” a letter or make a list.

3. Repetition is Your Secret Weapon

You’ll hear the same story, song, or rhyme over and over—and that’s exactly what’s supposed to happen! Repetition builds memory, vocabulary, and confidence.

Try This: Pick a favorite book or song and make it part of your daily routine—car rides, bath time, or bedtime.

4. Your Voice Matters More Than Perfect Words

You don’t need to be a professional storyteller to help your child’s literacy. Your enthusiasm, expressions, and silly voices make stories come alive and build connections.

Try This: Go all in with funny voices and exaggerated expressions—even if your dog thinks you’re nuts.

5. Play Is Learning (Yes, Really!)

When your child is busy building with blocks, playing dress-up, or “cooking” in a cardboard box kitchen, they’re practicing the skills they’ll need for reading and writing later. It’s all connected!

Try This: Join in the play. Ask questions, add new words, and encourage your child’s ideas.

Bonus: Don’t Forget to Sing! 🎶

Singing slows down language and helps kids notice sounds and rhythms—building the foundations for reading. Plus, it’s just plain fun. Kids honestly do not care if you're singing in tune or not.  They care about the time spent together.

Try This: Make up silly songs about everyday routines, or sing your favorite musical books together.

Wrapping It Up

Early literacy isn’t about perfection or screens or hours spent glued to a book. It’s about joyful, everyday connections that help your child feel confident, curious, and ready for school.

If librarians could whisper one thing in every parent’s ear, it would be: You are your child’s first and most important teacher.

So keep talking, playing, singing, and making reading more musical—one quirky, heartfelt moment at a time.

What’s your favorite way to build literacy without a book? Drop a comment or tag me on Instagram @im_a_librarian — I’d love to hear your stories!